An Ego is an Opportunity

May 30, 2008 at 11:13 am | In Networking, Personal Branding, Success Strategies | 6 Comments
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When you hear the word “ego” you automatically get this sensation and tingling feeling down your spineSimon Cowell American Idol that it’s negative. You may get defensive if someone calls you an egomaniac or says you have a big ego. In our culture there is a negative connotation around this single term. It is associated with all things evil in this world. In this post, I will rationalize the definition of ego and then explain how one of the biggest secrets in personal branding history can help you change your life for the better.

Definition of “ego”

  • Round 1: An inflated feeling of pride in your superiority to others.
  • Round 2: The self, especially as distinct from the world and other selves.
  • Round 3: The division of the psyche that is conscious, most immediately controls thought and behavior, and is most in touch with external reality.
  • Round 4: Appropriate pride in oneself; self-esteem.
  • Final Round: Your consciousness of your own identity.

Analysis and thoughts

If you read each definition, the words “identity“, “pride“, “self-esteem“, “distinct” and “superiority” come right at you like a pack of wolves hunting for their prey. From analyzing and re-reading each definition, my primary conclusion is that your ego is your external personal brand that is built internally. What I mean by this is that your ego is your facial expression and personality that is seen by others, but that is ignited from within. Your ego is regulated by your internal passions and energy or lack thereof. Therefore, you have the gift and privilege to share that ego with another individual and be judged based on that experience or impression. If you don’t have “pride” in your personal brand, then I can almost guarantee that some press in your local newspaper or a pat on the back at work wont soothe your wounds or give you purpose in life.

When you were in high school, there were always bullies that would demoralize you like you were beneath them. People take advantage of others and when that individual doesn’t stand up for themself, they lose pride, self-esteem, and their ego takes a hit. An ego is a state of mind. An ego allows one individual to soar to the top of the ladder and another to take a part-time job at McDonalds. An ego is your best friend and worst enemy. You can use it for good or evil. An ego grants purpose, attitude, values, pride and an identity. Since what you do makes you who you are and how you project that to others makes you memorable, your ego is that projection.

An ego is an opportunity

I’ve already started explaining this concept to a few people in the blogosphere, who have embraced it like it was common strategy. One of my biggest learnings and best kept secrets is that if you understand what an ego is, that everyone has one and that you can play to it, you can be extremely successful. People LOVE seeing their face on a magazine, blog, on national television, in a book or heard on the radio. They also enjoy compliments and careful attention paid to their hard work. By feeding this ego wholeheartedly and without asking for something in return, you will get twice as much back and have a strong relationship with that person.

An ego is an opportunity that costs you nothing these days (It’s 2008 WOW). By interviewing or writing about another individual on the web, the probability that they will reciprocate is quite high (if not now, at a later date). It costs you nothing to promote someone else, their product or even link to their website. The bigger idea behind this is giving before receiving, but servicing an ego is the greatest and cheapest way to accomplish this. This single strategy justifies starting a blog.

Next time you bite your tongue when you hear the word “ego”, realize that catering to someone’s ego may change your life.

Change The Way You See Your Personal Brand

May 29, 2008 at 11:25 am | In Book Reviews, Personal Branding, Success Strategies | 7 Comments
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Change The Way You See Yourself

I recently received a copy of “Change The Way You See Yourself” by Kathryn D. Cramer and Hank Wasiak. The picture above is not a mirror reflection, but rather proves the point of the book. If you keep thinking the same way and don’t use asset based thinking, you will have problems changing the world around you. Asset-based thinking reveals how even the slightest shifts in your thinking can lead to seismic differences. By transforming the way you see your own POWER, your INFLUENCE grows exponentially and your personal IMPACT intensifies dramatically. You won’t be able to read this book in one sitting so your strategy should be to read each part individually (there are 5) and then reflect on what you’ve learned. If nothing else, this book is a reminder that a positive mental attitude can trigger personal branding success.

About the authors

Kathryn D. Cramer, Ph.D. is the Founder and Managing Partner of The Cramer Institute in St. Louis, specializing in organization change consulting, leadership and team development, and executive coaching. She and her colleagues at The Cramer Institute have pioneered the development of Asset-Based Thinking approaches to coaching, consulting, and training processes for more than twenty years.

Hank Wasiak is a communications industry leader who has worked with the corporate elite of global business throughout his 40 year career. He is co-founder of The Concept Farm, one of today’s hottest creative development companies. Hank is an Emmy award winning producer and TV host, author, entrepreneur, and teacher.

Hank Wasiak Kathryn Cramer

Special note from Kathryn

“I feel that the first major section of our book, Change the Way You See Power, dovetails with personal branding by showing readers how to identify their “Signature Presence” - unique set of talents, skills and capabilities, and how to unleash their personal sense of purpose and passion in pursuing career goals and getting business results. I particularly like the ABT communication tools and invitation to chart the future using the storyboard techniques found in the fourth section of the book called Change the Way You See the Future.”

Memorable quotes

  • “Personal power comes from leveraging the assets that make you, you.”
  • “Calling yourself to action in service of a worthy cause gives meaning to your life.”
  • “Showing up is a straightforward act, but it’s HOW you show up that makes all the difference…”
  • “Stand for something…It’s your personal platform.”
  • “Your shortcomings and flaws actually increase your personal power exponentially when you reveal them for the sake of setting an example, righting a wrong, or accomplishing a greater good.”
  • “Feeling the pain, passion, delight, and moods of another creates mutually empathetic feelings of freedom and safety.”
  • “Express the deeper meaning and significance of your call to action in one powerful sentence that reveals your might cause.”

Brand Mystery 11 - Have You Heard of This Personal Brand?

May 28, 2008 at 11:29 am | In Brand Mystery, People, Personal Branding | 26 Comments

I’ve written some pretty extensive and intensive posts lately and now it’s time to take a breather. In the personal branding world, sometimes we need to rejuvenate and replenish our minds, so we can focus on what’s important. In my universe that means working on my book, full-time corporate job and magazine. Today is another episode of a game I call “Brand Mystery,” where you guess who the personal brand is and receive a link on the following game in the series.

Brand Mystery 10 Winner: Scott Gow was right in guessing Jeff Taylor. Sadly Scott never left a link to his site in the comments section previously, so I cannot reward him through link love.

Now it’s time to reveal the latest personal brand image. Leave your guesses in the comments section.
Good luck everyone!

Personal Brand Mystery

Hint: Don’t let that serious face fool you.

Interview With John Quelch About Social Media and Marketing

May 27, 2008 at 11:13 am | In Book Reviews, Interview, People, Personal Branding, social media | 3 Comments
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Recently, I spoke with John Quelch about marketing, branding, social media and his new book. In the following interview, you will get to know his personal brand, as well as gain insight into how one of the leading universities is using blogs and some examples of corporate branding.

John Quelch is the Lincoln Filene Professor of Business Administration and Senior Associate Dean of Harvard Business School.  John is the author,John Quelch co-author or editor of twenty books, including his latest book entitled “Greater Good: How Good Marketing Makes for Better Democracy.” He was one of ten marketing experts profiled in the 2007 book, Conversations with Marketing Masters, authored by Laura Mazur and Louella Miles. He is also a well-known blogger for Harvard Business Publishing. A professor at Harvard Business School since 1979, he is known worldwide for his research on global marketing, global branding and marketing communications. John is a non-executive director of WPP Group plc, the world’s second largest marketing services company, and of Pepsi Bottling Group. He served previously as a director of Reebok International.

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John, when did Harvard Business School decide to have a blogroll? Why do you think blogging is so important and how have you and Harvard taken a leadership roll by participating?

John: Harvard Business School Publishing launched the blog roll last year. There’s a mix of a dozen bloggers, some faculty, some not. I find the discipline of regular posting keeps my thinking current. The comments are often perceptive but, equally important, the volume of discussion around any one blog is a good indicator of manager interest. So I’m using blog feedback to prioritize the articles I write for Harvard Business Review etc.

As an author, co-author or editor of twenty books, which book has meant theGreater Good most to you and why? What inspired you to write, “Greater Good: How Good Marketing Makes for Better Democracy” and what do you want people to get out of it?

John: After twenty-five years teaching marketing text books, I thought I should try to break out of that sandbox with a book that speaks positively about marketing’s substantial contributions to society and the economy. Marketing takes a lot of criticism, some of it fair, most of it ill-informed. But that’s marketing’s fault. Marketing should at least be able to do a better job of marketing itself. That’s why Kathy Jocz and I wrote Greater Good. In it, we contend, we hope provocatively, that marketing is in practice more democratic than democracy.

You were born in London and were educated at one of the most, if not the most, prestigious college on the planet, Oxford University. What similarities and differences have you viewed between Harvard University and Oxford and what ideas have you brought with you from London?

John: The best thing about Oxford and Cambridge is the tutorial system used in undergraduate education. This requires the student to write a couple of essays a week and to read them aloud at tutorials with a professor and perhaps one or two other students present. It is hopelessly inefficient from an economic standpoint but enormously powerful as a learning process. It trains students in oral and written communication and requires them to defend their viewpoints under cross-examination.

From Reebok to Pepsi to the Port Authority of Massachusetts, what marketing and branding ideas have succeeded and failed?

John: A brand is a promise and brands that stay true to their promises succeed. Reebok began as a sneaker company focused on aerobics shoes for women, at a time when Nike was focused entirely on performance shoes for male athletes. Pepsi’s early advertising versus Coca-Cola was based on price rather than differential positioning: Pepsi promised “twice as much for a nickel too.” As a government agency, Massport must be careful not to overspend on marketing; we prefer to let our products and services speak for themselves and rely on our website, word-of-mouth and some public relations to gradually build citizens’ appreciation of the brand.

How has social media made your life easier, more productive and helped you connect with people from the past and present? What are your predictions for the future of the web?

John: Of course, I am tied to my Blackberry but I do not use the social sites much because I am already over-networked! It’s terrific to see the web emerge as a force for creativity in our society. I don’t just mean the user-generated content which is prompting companies to realize the value of co-creating brand meaning with their customers. I mean the inspirational value to young people who look at what Brin and Page have done at Google and what Zuckerberg has done at Facebook and think “wow, I could do something like that!”

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